well if i made any assumptions, i am sorry la but think abt wad u have said and wad u have did. are they the same? if yes good for u, if no, good for u too. y? i dunno y its up to u to think abt. den if u disagree to sth, pls tell the person. dun later come tell him dun wan it den do sth else. and finally dun push the blame to the person as if he forced u all to do sth u all dun wan. think abt it. think abt it carefully and clearly. let the bygones be bygones.